Do you think my friend goig to get obessive over me or jealous?
I have this frind she had a rough life. Her family moved from France when she was ten. Her step Dad shot herself in front of her. Here in America. She then was homeless here living in America and knowing no English. Her and her family. So then her Mom met a new man. This man was her step Dad he raped her. Thats her life story it is rough.We both are 19 want to be doctors. The thing is is my friend is afraid of everything. I took her to universal and she would not even ride the marry go around becuase it went up and down. She was literly afraid of it. She would ride no rides. I bought her ticket and a express pass she went on none of the rides. I spent 300 dollars on her. If she did not do the rides why did she go? She always has no money she works a job. I pay for her lunch at school.I pay for her ride to school bring her in my car she gave me no gas money. I brought hot choclate for the class. She got one cup of hot cocoa then dumped it and got anothor one.Then she dumped that one too. Full cups of cocoa for no reason.We both work in the hospital she is afraid to work alone or go anywhere by herslef. When she works with me I end up doing all the work. She well not even got o supply rooms by herslf. Then she had topick a floor to work on. I said I wanted to work on the third floor right in front of her. Only four peole can work on that floror. She then took my floor. Right after I said that. The teacher calls me the baby of the class. She goes this awards to the baby. Then my friend pouted ''she like we are the same age.'' I am the baby of the class becuase I am small and the youngest someone innocent. Then I seen my friend hug john all the time. She hugged other men too. On the last day of climicals she would nto hug John. In front of everyone said she could not. My teacher even warned her about her. She told me I needed to watch out for her. Becuase she said she the type that would get obessive over me or get really jealous. My friend wants to be a doctor but she over weight gets tired easy. When we did clinicals she just sat the whole time. When I ahd been workign the whole time their was only one chair. She did not even offer for me to sit. SHe sat in the chair while I stood there for about a hour. It was a presentation. I really do want ot be friends with her. I am afraid she might get clingy. She can not do things alone is afraid of everything. I do not know her well or if she is stable. She also really clings to my Mom. Like follows her everywhere. My Mom is her security. She gets mad when I want to be with my mom. My mom is in the same college course as me. My friend followed her everywhere when she was nto following me. My Mom said she made her do all the work. She even followed her to the bathroom. Since we were her ride home. My Mom was tlaking about leaving early. We were nto suppose to. We ahd to egt my little brother from elementry school. Well my friend called the supervising nurse that supervises us. And told them we were leaving early. Justso we would nto leave her she needed a ride. 6 minutes ago - 4 days left to answer. Additional Details Then the supervising nurse got mad at us. We ended up not leaving. It really was just a thought. Just encase no one could pick up my little brother from school.
Friends - 1 Answers
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This girl is in real trouble. you're both putting up with a lot and acting as a crutch for her, but when you move on (and you will eventually have to move on, even if it's just because you leave the course) she'll be in real trouble because she's never done anything fully. You're trying to help her out at the moment, which is understandable, but in the long run you may hurt her. You need to try to get her to do her share of the work, and have a quiet word with the course supervisor if she doesn't. You could also ask her if she has seen anyone for psychological help, although you will have to tread very carefully if you do this. There's nothing wrong with being her friend, it sounds like she needs one, but you will have to learn to put your foot down and not do things that are unreasonable. A friend is someone who does things for you as well, not just makes demands of you all the time. don't be afraid to say "no" once in a while. Hope this helps.
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Monday, March 28, 2011
Monday, March 14, 2011
Do you think my friend mentally stable? I cant deal with someone who not mentaly stable
Do you think my friend mentally stable? I cant deal with someone who not mentaly stable?
I have this frind she had a rough life. Her family moved from France when she was ten. Her step Dad shot herself in front of her. Here in America. She then was homeless here living in America and knowing no English. Her and her family. So then her Mom met a new man. This man was her step Dad he raped her. Thats her life story it is rough.We both are 19 want to be doctors. The thing is is my friend is afraid of everything. I took her to universal and she would not even ride the marry go around becuase it went up and down. She was literly afraid of it. She would ride no rides. I bought her ticket and a express pass she went on none of the rides. I spent 300 dollars on her. If she did not do the rides why did she go? She always has no money she works a job. I pay for her lunch at school.I pay for her ride to school bring her in my car she gave me no gas money. I brought hot choclate for the class. She got one cup of hot cocoa then dumped it and got anothor one.Then she dumped that one too. Full cups of cocoa for no reason.We both work in the hospital she is afraid to work alone or go anywhere by herslef. When she works with me I end up doing all the work. She well not even got o supply rooms by herslf. Then she had topick a floor to work on. I said I wanted to work on the third floor right in front of her. Only four peole can work on that floror. She then took my floor. Right after I said that. The teacher calls me the baby of the class. She goes this awards to the baby. Then my friend pouted ''she like we are the same age.'' I am the baby of the class becuase I am small and the youngest someone innocent. Then I seen my friend hug john all the time. She hugged other men too. On the last day of climicals she would nto hug John. In front of everyone said she could not. My teacher even warned her about her. She told me I needed to watch out for her. Becuase she said she the type that would get obessive over me or get really jealous. My friend wants to be a doctor but she over weight gets tired easy. When we did clinicals she just sat the whole time. When I ahd been workign the whole time their was only one chair. She did not even offer for me to sit. SHe sat in the chair while I stood there for about a hour. It was a presentation. I really do want ot be friends with her. I am afraid she might get clingy. She can not do things alone is afraid of everything. I do not know her well or if she is stable. She also really clings to my Mom. Like follows her everywhere. My Mom is her security. She gets mad when I want to be with my mom. My mom is in the same college course as me. My friend followed her everywhere when she was nto following me. My Mom said she made her do all the work. She even followed her to the bathroom. Since we were her ride home. My Mom was tlaking about leaving early. We were nto suppose to. We ahd to egt my little brother from elementry school. Well my friend called the supervising nurse that supervises us. And told them we were leaving early. Justso we would nto leave her she needed a ride. 20 minutes ago - 4 days left to answer. Additional Details Then the supervising nurse got mad at us. We ended up not leaving. It really was just a thought. Just encase no one could pick up my little brother from school. I dont know how menaly stable my friend is. I go to school 30 hours a week if she hs issues I can not afford or have time to take care of her. I want to but cant. If she is unstable I am not trained to know how to help her.
Psychology - 1 Answers
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I think your supervisor is trying to tell you that your friend has a borderline personality disorder. I seriously wonder why you are so in need of a friend that you are doing all these things for her. Are you independently wealthy? Do you need friends that badly that you have to pay for them? I am beginning to wonder if you have a psychiatric diagnosis as well, no offence. And people call me a patsy, sheesh!
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I have this frind she had a rough life. Her family moved from France when she was ten. Her step Dad shot herself in front of her. Here in America. She then was homeless here living in America and knowing no English. Her and her family. So then her Mom met a new man. This man was her step Dad he raped her. Thats her life story it is rough.We both are 19 want to be doctors. The thing is is my friend is afraid of everything. I took her to universal and she would not even ride the marry go around becuase it went up and down. She was literly afraid of it. She would ride no rides. I bought her ticket and a express pass she went on none of the rides. I spent 300 dollars on her. If she did not do the rides why did she go? She always has no money she works a job. I pay for her lunch at school.I pay for her ride to school bring her in my car she gave me no gas money. I brought hot choclate for the class. She got one cup of hot cocoa then dumped it and got anothor one.Then she dumped that one too. Full cups of cocoa for no reason.We both work in the hospital she is afraid to work alone or go anywhere by herslef. When she works with me I end up doing all the work. She well not even got o supply rooms by herslf. Then she had topick a floor to work on. I said I wanted to work on the third floor right in front of her. Only four peole can work on that floror. She then took my floor. Right after I said that. The teacher calls me the baby of the class. She goes this awards to the baby. Then my friend pouted ''she like we are the same age.'' I am the baby of the class becuase I am small and the youngest someone innocent. Then I seen my friend hug john all the time. She hugged other men too. On the last day of climicals she would nto hug John. In front of everyone said she could not. My teacher even warned her about her. She told me I needed to watch out for her. Becuase she said she the type that would get obessive over me or get really jealous. My friend wants to be a doctor but she over weight gets tired easy. When we did clinicals she just sat the whole time. When I ahd been workign the whole time their was only one chair. She did not even offer for me to sit. SHe sat in the chair while I stood there for about a hour. It was a presentation. I really do want ot be friends with her. I am afraid she might get clingy. She can not do things alone is afraid of everything. I do not know her well or if she is stable. She also really clings to my Mom. Like follows her everywhere. My Mom is her security. She gets mad when I want to be with my mom. My mom is in the same college course as me. My friend followed her everywhere when she was nto following me. My Mom said she made her do all the work. She even followed her to the bathroom. Since we were her ride home. My Mom was tlaking about leaving early. We were nto suppose to. We ahd to egt my little brother from elementry school. Well my friend called the supervising nurse that supervises us. And told them we were leaving early. Justso we would nto leave her she needed a ride. 20 minutes ago - 4 days left to answer. Additional Details Then the supervising nurse got mad at us. We ended up not leaving. It really was just a thought. Just encase no one could pick up my little brother from school. I dont know how menaly stable my friend is. I go to school 30 hours a week if she hs issues I can not afford or have time to take care of her. I want to but cant. If she is unstable I am not trained to know how to help her.
Psychology - 1 Answers
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I think your supervisor is trying to tell you that your friend has a borderline personality disorder. I seriously wonder why you are so in need of a friend that you are doing all these things for her. Are you independently wealthy? Do you need friends that badly that you have to pay for them? I am beginning to wonder if you have a psychiatric diagnosis as well, no offence. And people call me a patsy, sheesh!
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Monday, March 7, 2011
Do you like my short story
Do you like my short story?
I have had to write a short story for my coursework. All my friends say its really good :) Im usually getting grades around a C, so do you like it? PS. It is sad x Lost Friendship I wake up panting, frightened. I keep having the same nightmare every night for about a month now. It’s about the same thing, about my mum. The nightmare is about my mother dying but when I calmed down; I remembered that it wasn’t in my head it was for real. I lay awake, staring at the unfinished painted ceiling, in my small, dark bedroom at my grandma’s house. I turned over and looked at my clock; 2:38am...a month ago since my mum died. She was the innocent one. She didn’t deserve to be killed. I didn’t think it should have been her but unfortunately it was. My dad; Justin, left my mum three years ago. I was seven at the time. My mum and dad used to get on really well but when I turned 5, my dad started being aggressive towards my mum. He didn’t hit her or anything like that, but he shouted at her a lot. One night, my mum sat on her bed crying, I came in to see if she was alright but she said I was too young to understand. My mum was like my best friend, she was always there for me and I wanted to be there for her and I was determined to find out what had happened. I didn’t see my dad for a while after that, even when it was my 6th birthday, I got a card with some money but I never saw him. This is the day I found out what had happened. I asked my mum why dad never turned up at my party and she told me that they had split up but told me I needn’t to worry because he will be visiting again soon. Soon after my 7th birthday, which my dad didn’t turn up at, my mum re-married to someone called Peter. He made my mum feel happy which made me feel happy but I didn’t like Peter, he wasn’t my dad and he would never replace him. Even though my dad made my mum upset, I still loved him. I got a letter from my dad in the post a week after the wedding, telling my mum congratulations and letting us know he is ok and is living in France where he has got a good job working at a restaurant. A few years later when I was nine, my mum went out to a party with a few of her friends. She had never drunk alcohol before and she didn’t at the party, but when she was walking home at night with her friends, a drunken driver sped up onto the path and hit my mum. The drunken driver didn’t help my mum; he drove off, knowing he would be in trouble. My mum’s friend’s called for an ambulance and the police. Eventually, the police found the drunken mad man who killed my mum and was arrested...but my mum was driven away to the hospital immediately. When I woke up the next morning, I was at my grandma’s house. I wandered into the living room to where my grandma was sitting in her usual arm chair and I asked her why I was at her house and where my mum was. She told me that a car knocked her over walking home that night and had been taken to hospital and that Peter had gone out. I visited my mum in hospital within a few hours of my grandma telling me. She looked awful. She couldn’t speak, she was covered in bruises and she had tubes coming out of her. I stood and stared at her and burst into tears. A nurse came into my mum’s room and told me that my mum needed to rest to get better. I didn’t want to leave my mum but the nurse said she would get better, so I slowly walked out of the room, tears running down my face. The next day, I woke up and I heard my grandma on the phone, she sounded upset. She came upstairs but she was crying, I asked if she was ok, and she told me my mum had died. Ever since then, my life hasn’t been the same. I’m writing to my dad more and he says he will come and visit me in the next month. Peter never turned up at home, so I guess he has gone too. But I know my mum will be watching over me and she will still be always there for me like she used to be. I’m never going to forget my mum, I will love her always. I turned over and stared at my clock; 3:00am, and very slowly, I drifted back off to sleep.
Words & Wordplay - 2 Answers
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Wow that's really good don't listen to the person above me he's just jealous because he couldn't write something that good.
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I have had to write a short story for my coursework. All my friends say its really good :) Im usually getting grades around a C, so do you like it? PS. It is sad x Lost Friendship I wake up panting, frightened. I keep having the same nightmare every night for about a month now. It’s about the same thing, about my mum. The nightmare is about my mother dying but when I calmed down; I remembered that it wasn’t in my head it was for real. I lay awake, staring at the unfinished painted ceiling, in my small, dark bedroom at my grandma’s house. I turned over and looked at my clock; 2:38am...a month ago since my mum died. She was the innocent one. She didn’t deserve to be killed. I didn’t think it should have been her but unfortunately it was. My dad; Justin, left my mum three years ago. I was seven at the time. My mum and dad used to get on really well but when I turned 5, my dad started being aggressive towards my mum. He didn’t hit her or anything like that, but he shouted at her a lot. One night, my mum sat on her bed crying, I came in to see if she was alright but she said I was too young to understand. My mum was like my best friend, she was always there for me and I wanted to be there for her and I was determined to find out what had happened. I didn’t see my dad for a while after that, even when it was my 6th birthday, I got a card with some money but I never saw him. This is the day I found out what had happened. I asked my mum why dad never turned up at my party and she told me that they had split up but told me I needn’t to worry because he will be visiting again soon. Soon after my 7th birthday, which my dad didn’t turn up at, my mum re-married to someone called Peter. He made my mum feel happy which made me feel happy but I didn’t like Peter, he wasn’t my dad and he would never replace him. Even though my dad made my mum upset, I still loved him. I got a letter from my dad in the post a week after the wedding, telling my mum congratulations and letting us know he is ok and is living in France where he has got a good job working at a restaurant. A few years later when I was nine, my mum went out to a party with a few of her friends. She had never drunk alcohol before and she didn’t at the party, but when she was walking home at night with her friends, a drunken driver sped up onto the path and hit my mum. The drunken driver didn’t help my mum; he drove off, knowing he would be in trouble. My mum’s friend’s called for an ambulance and the police. Eventually, the police found the drunken mad man who killed my mum and was arrested...but my mum was driven away to the hospital immediately. When I woke up the next morning, I was at my grandma’s house. I wandered into the living room to where my grandma was sitting in her usual arm chair and I asked her why I was at her house and where my mum was. She told me that a car knocked her over walking home that night and had been taken to hospital and that Peter had gone out. I visited my mum in hospital within a few hours of my grandma telling me. She looked awful. She couldn’t speak, she was covered in bruises and she had tubes coming out of her. I stood and stared at her and burst into tears. A nurse came into my mum’s room and told me that my mum needed to rest to get better. I didn’t want to leave my mum but the nurse said she would get better, so I slowly walked out of the room, tears running down my face. The next day, I woke up and I heard my grandma on the phone, she sounded upset. She came upstairs but she was crying, I asked if she was ok, and she told me my mum had died. Ever since then, my life hasn’t been the same. I’m writing to my dad more and he says he will come and visit me in the next month. Peter never turned up at home, so I guess he has gone too. But I know my mum will be watching over me and she will still be always there for me like she used to be. I’m never going to forget my mum, I will love her always. I turned over and stared at my clock; 3:00am, and very slowly, I drifted back off to sleep.
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Wow that's really good don't listen to the person above me he's just jealous because he couldn't write something that good.
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Tuesday, March 1, 2011
How to contact wackanaka about his question about the door knocking rhyme
How to contact wackanaka about his question about the door knocking rhyme?
I saw a question, have the answer, but it is already in voting. Any way to contact or post his answer now? If so here it is: a 1940's jump rope rhyme. Following is a 1940s rhyme from West Los Angeles. Charlie Chaplin went to France To teach the ladies how to dance. First the heel, then the toe, Then the splits, and around you go! Salute to the Captain, Bow to the Queen, And turn your back on the Nazi submarine! Not last night but the night before Forty-four robbers came knocking at my door! Call for the doctor, call for the nurse, And call for the lady with the alligator purse! In came the doctor, in came the nurse, And in came the lady with the alligator purse. Out went the doctor, out went the nurse, And out went the lady with the alligator purse! Spanish dancer, turn around, Spanish dancer, touch the ground. Spanish dancer, do a high kick, Spanish dancer, get out of town quick! All in together, birds of a feather: January, February, March, April, May, etc. (each child had to jump in during the month they were born) Ice cream soda, Delaware Punch, Tell me the name of my honey-bunch. A, B, C, etc. . . . And don't forget the RED HOT PEPPERS (and the turners would turn the rope as fast as they could).
Jokes & Riddles - 1 Answers
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Send him an email seya I really like your poem so cool
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I saw a question, have the answer, but it is already in voting. Any way to contact or post his answer now? If so here it is: a 1940's jump rope rhyme. Following is a 1940s rhyme from West Los Angeles. Charlie Chaplin went to France To teach the ladies how to dance. First the heel, then the toe, Then the splits, and around you go! Salute to the Captain, Bow to the Queen, And turn your back on the Nazi submarine! Not last night but the night before Forty-four robbers came knocking at my door! Call for the doctor, call for the nurse, And call for the lady with the alligator purse! In came the doctor, in came the nurse, And in came the lady with the alligator purse. Out went the doctor, out went the nurse, And out went the lady with the alligator purse! Spanish dancer, turn around, Spanish dancer, touch the ground. Spanish dancer, do a high kick, Spanish dancer, get out of town quick! All in together, birds of a feather: January, February, March, April, May, etc. (each child had to jump in during the month they were born) Ice cream soda, Delaware Punch, Tell me the name of my honey-bunch. A, B, C, etc. . . . And don't forget the RED HOT PEPPERS (and the turners would turn the rope as fast as they could).
Jokes & Riddles - 1 Answers
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Send him an email seya I really like your poem so cool
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