Do you think my friend goig to get obessive over me or jealous?
I have this frind she had a rough life. Her family moved from France when she was ten. Her step Dad shot herself in front of her. Here in America. She then was homeless here living in America and knowing no English. Her and her family. So then her Mom met a new man. This man was her step Dad he raped her. Thats her life story it is rough.We both are 19 want to be doctors. The thing is is my friend is afraid of everything. I took her to universal and she would not even ride the marry go around becuase it went up and down. She was literly afraid of it. She would ride no rides. I bought her ticket and a express pass she went on none of the rides. I spent 300 dollars on her. If she did not do the rides why did she go? She always has no money she works a job. I pay for her lunch at school.I pay for her ride to school bring her in my car she gave me no gas money. I brought hot choclate for the class. She got one cup of hot cocoa then dumped it and got anothor one.Then she dumped that one too. Full cups of cocoa for no reason.We both work in the hospital she is afraid to work alone or go anywhere by herslef. When she works with me I end up doing all the work. She well not even got o supply rooms by herslf. Then she had topick a floor to work on. I said I wanted to work on the third floor right in front of her. Only four peole can work on that floror. She then took my floor. Right after I said that. The teacher calls me the baby of the class. She goes this awards to the baby. Then my friend pouted ''she like we are the same age.'' I am the baby of the class becuase I am small and the youngest someone innocent. Then I seen my friend hug john all the time. She hugged other men too. On the last day of climicals she would nto hug John. In front of everyone said she could not. My teacher even warned her about her. She told me I needed to watch out for her. Becuase she said she the type that would get obessive over me or get really jealous. My friend wants to be a doctor but she over weight gets tired easy. When we did clinicals she just sat the whole time. When I ahd been workign the whole time their was only one chair. She did not even offer for me to sit. SHe sat in the chair while I stood there for about a hour. It was a presentation. I really do want ot be friends with her. I am afraid she might get clingy. She can not do things alone is afraid of everything. I do not know her well or if she is stable. She also really clings to my Mom. Like follows her everywhere. My Mom is her security. She gets mad when I want to be with my mom. My mom is in the same college course as me. My friend followed her everywhere when she was nto following me. My Mom said she made her do all the work. She even followed her to the bathroom. Since we were her ride home. My Mom was tlaking about leaving early. We were nto suppose to. We ahd to egt my little brother from elementry school. Well my friend called the supervising nurse that supervises us. And told them we were leaving early. Justso we would nto leave her she needed a ride. 6 minutes ago - 4 days left to answer. Additional Details Then the supervising nurse got mad at us. We ended up not leaving. It really was just a thought. Just encase no one could pick up my little brother from school.
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This girl is in real trouble. you're both putting up with a lot and acting as a crutch for her, but when you move on (and you will eventually have to move on, even if it's just because you leave the course) she'll be in real trouble because she's never done anything fully. You're trying to help her out at the moment, which is understandable, but in the long run you may hurt her. You need to try to get her to do her share of the work, and have a quiet word with the course supervisor if she doesn't. You could also ask her if she has seen anyone for psychological help, although you will have to tread very carefully if you do this. There's nothing wrong with being her friend, it sounds like she needs one, but you will have to learn to put your foot down and not do things that are unreasonable. A friend is someone who does things for you as well, not just makes demands of you all the time. don't be afraid to say "no" once in a while. Hope this helps.
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